Lord, Teach Us to Pray! Dallas M. Roark
The practice of "free
prayer" has led to definite problems in the corporate worship of the
church, among which a prominent one is the stereotype prayer. This can
be predicted even before it is uttered. It generally runs something
like this: This stock 'prayer, by changing a
phrase or tvvo, can be adjusted to meet almost any occasion. The words,
"Please bless all those who gave this morning," make it suitable for
the offering. The addition of "Bless all our missionaries around the
world" or "Bless those who could not be here, and those who are sick,"
adapts the prayer to still other situations. Obviously God does not answer prayer on the basis of its literary merit. If a layman leads the congregation in prayer, however, his prayer should express the heartfelt thoughts of the group. To do this demands big and vivid thinking and includes the right choice of words as well as sincerity. Too often prayers become occasions for mental vacations. Generally speaking, the nature and content of prayer have been of concern to the church. Origen's Treatise on Prayer in the third century condemned repetitious phrases and attempted to give direction for constructing prayers. And the many subsequent worship manuals and prayer books likewise have stressed the need for instruction in prayer. Several things can be done to improve our present situation. 1. The church must teach its people to pray just as Jesus taught his disciples. Because a man is converted and on speaking terms with God does not automatically give him proficiency in prayer. He does the logical thing--imitate someone else! New church members would find it helpful, therefore, to read a book of prayers for all occasions; one good example is worth far more than any number of poor ones. By analysis and study one soon learns, for example, that an offertory prayer is limited to the dedication of the offering-it need not include everything else in the catalogue of human concerns. 2. Every church member could profitably write out a
number of prayers. By recording our thoughts to God--giving thanks for
his inexpressible love, casting ourselves upon his unshakable mercy,
expressing our needs and requests--we can discover what our prayers
ought to be. We are not suggesting that public prayer should be read,
although some occasions might very ,weIl demand such procedure. By
writing out a prayer, however, one is apt to remember key thoughts and
will be more adequately prepared for public prayer. 3. A third essential for improving the quality of prayer must come from the pastor or the leader of a meeting. He must forewarn those who will be requested to pray. Often the endless repetitions in prayer are due to the spur-of-the-moment assignments we make to lead in prayer. Taken by surprise, and perhaps a bit nervous, the assignee can think only of Deacon Repeatem's customary prayer. So he steals the Deacon's fire and form. 4. Christian people need to learn that there is nothing wrong with pausing to think in the course of prayer. The fear of silence too often prompts us to throw in our favorite phrases like "dear Lord," "our dear heavenly Father," "dear Jesus," and so on. In a prayer of a minute and a half, we heard one student use the title "dear Lord" 12 times. In conversation with a friend, such repetition would sound ridiculous. Pausing to think may very well eliminate disturbing and pointless repetition of phrases. 5. We need to say fewer but pray more prayers. Stop for a moment and recall the total number of prayers given in the course of an ordinary Sunday's services. Without exaggeration there could easily be anywhere from 20 to 25 prayers. Unfortunately, most of them are the same. Instead of padding our services with "rote prayers" we need to pray more by repeating less. Perhaps in no other area of our Christian lives are we so
poverty-stricken as in prayer. We know that God will not hear us for
our "much repetition of words." And we know that men will not grow in
prayer unless we lead them in meaningful prayer. |